• Conversations On Dying
  • Larry Librach
  • Phil Dwyer
  • Tributes
  • Videos
  • Blog
  • Events
Conversations on dying
A website for the book Conversations On Dying

Menu Close
  • Conversations On Dying
  • Larry Librach
  • Phil Dwyer
  • Tributes
  • Videos
  • Blog
  • Events

grief

On Letting Go (fall 1974)

May 12, 2016admin

Most of these contributed pieces have concerned friends or loved ones who have died after extended illnesses. And while all death feels tragic, these at least extend the grace of time to adjust to the new realities dictated by disease.… Continue Reading →

Grief grief

The Smallest Flutter of Wings

May 6, 2016admin 11 Comments

Grief can take many forms. In the case of this week’s guest author, Noelle Bickle, it took the form of a ladybug, after her mother’s cancer death, just after Thanksgiving last year. By Noelle Bickle Two days before my mother… Continue Reading →

Cancer, funerals, Grief, Patient Stories cancer, grief, patient stories

A Burden Of Love

April 25, 2016admin 1 Comment

In this short extract from the book Conversations on Dying, Dr. Larry Librach and author Phil Dwyer are discussing one of the most onerous psychological impacts affecting cancer patients: feeling like a burden to caregivers, friends and family. In his… Continue Reading →

Book, Cancer, Caregiving, Grief, Patient Stories burden, caregiving, grief

The Death Cruise Director

April 12, 2016admin

I first contacted today’s guest author, Julie Devaney, because I saw a Facebook post about a talk she was giving on patient centric care. It seemed she shared a passion for the subject with Larry Librach. I approached her to… Continue Reading →

Book, Healthcare, Patient Centric Care, Patient Stories, Policy grief, patient centric care, patient stories

Undigested — Part II

March 30, 2016admin 2 Comments

Guest author Elaine Jackson concludes her post on the death of her father-in-law.  

Grief, Patient Stories, Uncategorized grief, patient stories

Undigested — Part I

March 29, 2016admin 1 Comment

Guest author Elaine Jackson, on the death of her father-in-law. This brave and vivid account reminded me of so many aspects of the death of my brother, John. Please note that Elaine has  changed the names of the family members… Continue Reading →

Grief, Patient Stories, Uncategorized grief, patient stories

Last Chance To Talk — Part III

March 3, 2016admin 12 Comments

The final installment of guest author Heidi Croot’s reminiscence of caring for her dying father.

Caregiving, Grief, Patient Stories caregiving, grief, patient stories

Last Chance To Talk — Part I

March 1, 2016admin 8 Comments

This week’s guest author, Heidi Croot, tackles complex and difficult themes. What do we do when the struggle gets too much for the dying? Do we fight, or let them go? She also explores her relationship with her father, and… Continue Reading →

Grief, Patient Stories grief, patient stories

A Different Perspective On Death

February 26, 2016admin 4 Comments

This week’s guest author (full disclosure) is my wife, Natalie Parry. Natalie works in North America’s largest palliative care centre. She’s passionate about palliative care, and here she explains where that passion was born and how it was nurtured.

Grief, Patient Stories, Uncategorized grief, patient stories

Funerals

February 2, 2016admin 3 Comments

Today’s guest author recalls a time when families laid out their loved ones themselves, in their own parlours, performing those last acts of love and duty: washing and dressing the corpse, laying it out. She reminds us of something Larry… Continue Reading →

funerals, Grief funerals, grief

Post navigation

← Older Articles
Conversations on Dying: A Palliative-Care Pioneer Faces His Own Death

Recent Posts

  • On Letting Go (fall 1974)
  • The Smallest Flutter of Wings
  • A Burden Of Love
  • The Death Cruise Director
  • Larry Librach on pay-for-performance in the healthcare system

Recent Comments

  • Wendie Donabie on The Smallest Flutter of Wings
  • Marg Gurr on The Smallest Flutter of Wings
  • Kellye on The Smallest Flutter of Wings
  • Noelle Bickle on The Smallest Flutter of Wings
  • Noelle Bickle on The Smallest Flutter of Wings

Archives

  • May 2016
  • April 2016
  • March 2016
  • February 2016
  • January 2016
  • December 2015
  • November 2015
  • October 2015
  • September 2014

Categories

  • Advance Care Planning
  • Assisted death
  • Book
  • Cancer
  • Caregiving
  • funerals
  • Grief
  • Healthcare
  • Patient Centric Care
  • Patient Stories
  • Pay-for-performance
  • Policy
  • Soundbites
  • Uncategorized
© 2025 Conversations on dying. All rights reserved.
Fashionista by aThemes
 

Loading Comments...
 

You must be logged in to post a comment.